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Spring
Cleaning for Your Mind
By Lauren Archer, CH
Ah,
Spring. Time to take stock of your belongings, get rid of
stuff you haven’t used in a while, dust the cobwebs out of
the corners, and clear your space.
While you’re
at it, how about clearing your head at the same time? Spring
is a perfect time to shine a light on your thoughts so you
can re-evaluate your life and get rid of beliefs that aren’t
working for you anymore. It’s a bit like dusting out the
cobwebs from the deep, dark recesses of your mind.
In order to
shine a proverbial light on your current way of thinking,
you get to take stock of your mind and become the
observer of your thoughts.
Here’s an
interesting statistic for you...
Did you know
that the average person think s
about 60,000 thoughts a day, and about 90% of those thoughts
are habitual? So most days, we’re walking around thinking
about the same things we thought about yesterday, and the
day before, and the day before that. We tend to replay the
same old tapes, as they say. (For those of you
under age 25, audio and video was recorded on tape
before everything went digital, so many people still refer
to recorded media as tapes. I suppose now we
should all say that we’re replaying the same old files.
What a coincidence – we have just experienced a prime
example of clearing out an old belief and replacing it with
a new one).
How
do you actually perform mental spring cleaning?
It helps to
know that human beings process thought in three primary
ways:
1. With
pictures/images in our mind’s eye;
2. With
sounds in our mind’s ear; and
3. with
sensations /feelings in our body.
One
of the easiest ways to identify your repetitive thinking is
by listening to the incessant ramblings of your inner voice.
You know, the one that says, “You should have done it that
way,” and “there you go again,” and “this happens every
time!” The next time you hear that voice, you can turn up
the volume as you observe the thought without letting
yourself become identified with it. Just say to yourself,
“wow – listen to that thought I was thinking – isn’t that
interesting to observe! I wonder how many times I have
thought that same thought in the past?” Perhaps you may even
imagine Dr. Phil’s voice saying, “how’s that working for ya?”
Now that you have observed the thought, you get to decide
whether to keep it or clear it out.
Like
spring cleaning, here’s an easy way to process your
inventory of thoughts. Imagine creating three boxes in your
mind – label one “KEEP,” label the second “RETURN,”
and label the third “TOSS.” You may uncover some
ideas or beliefs that were given to you as a child by your
family, friends, or culture. You can imagine “returning” the
ones you don’t like by placing them in the “return” box. Put
all of your self-critical or limiting thoughts in the “toss”
box. I bet you can be really creative with how you imagine
tossing the contents. You definitely want to keep any
thoughts that support you and make you feel good. In fact,
you may even want to dust them off and put them on display
in a place where you can observe them more often.
Albert
Einstein knew the importance of this process when he said,
“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking
we used when we created them.” That reminds me of the famous
line by Dr. Seuss --“Oh the Thinks you can think up, if only
you try.” Clearly, both Einstein and Seuss were willing to
question established beliefs and think far “outside the
box.” Now that it’s spring, you may find yourself solving
problems more easily as you begin to clear your head. You
can apply this simple process to get rid of old beliefs to
make room so you can think up a few new thoughts.
Happy
cleaning!
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